Wednesday's Word With: Diane

After a nasty divorce, Diane of Illinois, vowed to be a role model for her young daughter. She wanted her daughter to see her as a strong and independent woman. "It is important for daughters to see their mothers as strong women," Diane said. She currently works part time as a teacher's aide at an elementary school.

Busymom: Please introduce yourself.

Diane: I am a newly divorced mother. I am slowly getting on my feet again. I now work as a teacher's aide at an elementary school. I also spend valuable time with my daughter who attends kindergarten.

Busymom: You are now the head of your household. You have more tasks to do than ever. Do you find a balance, and if so how?

Diane: I try to multi-task. I also use a day planner to write everything that must be done now or in the near future. I also write down appointments and other activities. Do I find a balance? That is a tough question to answer. Sometimes, I feel overwhelmed because of so many things to do. However, I have learned not to sweat the small stuff--which has made me feel a bit better. Although, my daughter is only in kindergarten, I include her in some of my tasks.

Busymom: How do you take care of yourself?

Diane: Well, I love candles. Not only do they have a beautiful scent, they are soothing and relaxing. Sometimes, I will use a shower gel as a treat. I definitely could not live without my day planner because my mind feels less cluttered.

Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to a busy mom?

Diane: Spend lots of time with your own children because sometimes circumstances may not allow it.

Busymom: Thank you for your time, Diane!

Busy mom Diane relies on a day planner to help ease her life. She is a big user of candles, and she will occasionally use a shower gel. At Allizon.com, you can find some of the same products, such as the MomAgena,shower gels and scented candles. Busy Mom Agenda would make an ideal day planner for the busy mom. In need of a scented candle? Try the Sugar Mint Soy Candle found at Allizon.com. These items and many more can be found at http://www.allizon.com/.

Wednesday's Word With: Tina

A fulltime, stay-at-home mom, Tina, of New Jersey, has her hands full with triplets--two boys and one girl. Her husband works 12 hour days, five or six days a week. That usually doesn't leave much time for Tina to pamper herself because she is constantly supervising her children. Once they're asleep, she tries to clean up the rooms, or she takes a nap herself.

Busymom: Please introduce yourself.

Tina: I'm Tina, a mother of triplets. My triplets are all two right now, so I am having to deal with the "Terrible Twos" as well. My husband does help when he is not working. I plan structured activities and free play for my children.

Busymom: Why do you plan structured activities?

Tina: I have to plan structured activities because that is one way the triplets will learn about their environment and how to deal with each other. Otherwise, you will hear constant fighting a big part of the day!

Busymom: When you have a chance how do you take care of yourself? Or what kinds of products do you use to help make your life easier?

Tina: When I take a shower, I will use my favorite shower gels or body wash, and then apply lotion once I get dressed. Not only do I smell great, I feel relaxed. I also use a calendar to record activities, appointments and other important items. That helps because it keeps my mind clutter-free.

Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to share with other moms?

Tina: It's OK to have a "lived-in" house, meaning it doesn't look like it came out of a magazine. When your children sleep or take a nap, go for it if you want or need one.


Although Tina may not have much time to pamper herself, she does while she showers or bathes. Shower gels, body wash and lotions help a person, especially a mom, feel good about themselves. Tina also uses an agenda to help organize her and her family's life. Agendas, shower gels and other items can be found at http://www.allizon.com/.

Wednesday's Word With: Faye of Illinois

Faye, of Illinois, is a mother of six children and works full time. Although her husband does help with family and household tasks, Faye ends up completing or supervising most of those tasks. I have interviewed her to see how if she makes time for herself.

Busymom: Please introduce yourself.

Faye: I am Faye. I am the mother of six children, ages three to 12 years, and I work in a preschool. I come home and then work to make sure family and household tasks are met. Bless my husband, he does help when he can.

Busymom: You mentioned that your husband does help when he can. What about your older children?

Faye: Yes, they are starting to, even the three year old. They pick up after themselves. They also receive positive reinforcements if they do above and beyond their responsibilities. Since we are a large family, we work or try to work as a team. Sometimes, we have our moments.

Busymom: Since you are extremely busy, how do you take care of yourself, so that you may continue to be healthy and happy?

Faye: I have learned not to be a perfectionist and that each person has their own way of completing tasks. I also record all appointments, meetings, play dates, projects in one agenda that stays with me, so that I can keep track of all activities. When the children are in bed, I give myself a bubble bath with a good book I'm reading. After that, I use lotion as a massaging technique. Sometimes, my husband will take over the bed time routine, so that I could go to bed early.

Busymom: Any other advice you would like to give to busy moms?

Faye: Allow others to help in their own way--even if it annoys you. Learn to let go of some tasks and delegate. Don't feel guilty in spending time for yourself. If you are not happy, then your family will not be happy.

Faye is one busy mom, yet she manages to take care of herself even if only minutes of time alone. She is an avid user of agendas. At http://www.allizon.com/, Busy Mom agendas and calendars are available for the busy mom. Faye mentions that she uses lotions to relax. At allizon.com, there are a variety of lotions for purchase, such as Malie Koke'e Body Creme, Jing Jang Creme, or Aromatherapy Moisturizers. Visit http://www.allizon.com/ for your personal or gift needs--you'll be glad you did.

Friday Favorites

Friday Favorites is about customers that have enjoyed products by allizon.com. I think it would be fun to post what customers have to say about certain products they have purchased and used from us.

Since life is too short to experience everything, we should find out what others are saying about life and its experiences. We can learn from each other's experiences. This is important for products that we buy.

When we buy products--many of us expect quality in all areas. I would be interested in knowing what you as a customer thought about our products.

I will also discuss what kind of products and activities I have enjoyed.