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 Katie, of Michigan, works full time at a local bank. She is a mother to three children, one boy and two girls. Her husband just became unemployed. "He helps by taking care of our children while I go to work," Katie said. "It is a change, but we are trying to make the best of it." Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Katie: I am a mother to two girls and one boy, all under age six years old. I work full time at a local bank for the last five years. My husband just became unemployed. It is a big change for us, but we are managing it. Busymom: How are you managing as a family with one income? Katie: Well, the children do not have to be with a babysitter--they are now with their dad while I am at work. He takes over some of my duties that I was doing while in between looking for a job. We have saved for a "Rainy Day"--which is helping us. Busymom: How do you take care of yourself? Katie: I enjoy my baths by using shower gels and bubble baths. I use candles as well as a method of relaxation. Busymom: What advice do you have for busy moms? Katie: It is ok if you and your spouse have to trade roles for a while. You will get to see the what the other goes through and appreciate them more! Visit Allizon.com to find a variety of shower gels and candles.
 Cindy, of Wisconsin, owns her own accounting and tax service. "The next few months will be a busy season as I prepare taxes," Cindy said. "Usually, my husband and children will fend for themselves because I won't be getting home until the evening time." Despite the long hours she will put in, Cindy loves owning her own accounting and tax service. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Cindy: I am Cindy, a mother to two girls and one boy. I own a small accounting and tax service. This will be my third year as owner. Parts of the year, I work on accounting and payroll services, and the other part is dedicated to tax season. Busymom: Since you put in long hours during tax season, how do you find time to take care of yourself? Cindy: I mentally prepare myself ahead of time knowing that I will put in long hours, and my husband will take care over some of my parenting duties. It is also a blessing that my children are old enough to take care of themselves. When I shower, I like to use shower gels. I always use moisturizers and lotions. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to busy moms? Cindy: It is important to delegate. Don't feel guilty if you take a five minute break for a cup coffee. Busymom: Thanks for your time to be with me today! Despite Cindy's busy seasons, she manages to use moisturizers, lotions and shower gels. Top products can be found at Allizon.com. Don't forget to visit http://www.allizon.com to see some of the best products for busy moms online!
 Jen, of Vermont, is a mother to three high school students. "Although, they are in high school, I have found that they need me more than ever," said Jen. She also helps her husband with his business. After 20 years, Jen is going back to school getting her degree in business. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Jen: I am Jen, a mother to three high school students--two boys and one girl. Many told me that once the children get older, they will not need their parents as much. I don't find that to be true. I see once they get older, they need their parents around for advice and guidance. I also help my husband run his business, and I have been taking classes at our local university after 20 years of not being in school. Busymom: How do you take care of yourself, so that you are able to fulfill these roles? Jen: For starters, I keep things to do, appointments, events and etc. in a day planner because that helps me manage my time. My children also have certain chores they are responsible for doing and completing. Since they are teenagers, I am able to take showers, or go into my room to read a book. I also use moisturizers and lotions massage my skin. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to busy mothers? Jen: Don't be afraid to ask for some time to yourself. You need it, so that you can filled with energy when doing your job or jobs. A happy mom makes a happy home. Your family's mood is affected by you--the mother. Busymom: Thanks Jen for letting me interview you. Good luck with your school studies! A returning student, Jen makes sure she has time for herself. She uses a day planner to manage her time and schedule. She also makes sure she moisturizes because it is great for her skin and makes her relaxed. Great products can be found at Allizon.com. Go to http://www.allizon.com/ to get more purchasing information on awesome products.
 Tonya, of New Mexico, is a work at home mother to a boy and a girl. She is a freelance writer. "I love being a work at home mom because as a freelance writer, I have more control of my hours--which is a good thing for my children," Tonya said. She is the mother to a three-year-old girl and one-year-old boy. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Tonya: I am Tonya. I used to work as a writer in a company before becoming a freelance writer to stay at home with my children. Busymom: How do you separate your work from your family, so that you can have time for yourself as well? Tonya: I try to stick to a schedule, however with flexibility. I tend to work in the same room where my children are playing. I work part-time, so that I can fulfill the needs of my family. Once the children are in school, I will be working full-time. After three or fours of work, I quit and focus time on my family. Any work questions or issues wait until the next day. I also use a day planner religiously. Busymom: Do you have time for yourself? If so, how? Busymom: Do you have any advice you would like to give to busy moms? Tonya: Don't be afraid to be flexible. That could be to your advantage. Being flexible is a must for Tonya because this allows her to find a balance between work, family and for herself. She also tries to take time for herself on a daily basis by using moisturizers, lotions, and candles. Awesome items can be found at http://www.allizon.com/ .
 Traci, of Colorado, is a mother to two girls, 3 and 5, and one boy 7. She works at a private school full-time. "There are days when it is too hectic in our house, yet there are days when everything and everyone is running smoothly," Traci said with a smile. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Traci: I am Traci, a mother to three wonderful children. My husband and I try to work opposite hours, so that one of us is always home with our children. When it doesn't work, then we get a babysitter involved. Busymom: How do you balance time for yourself since you work full-time and manage and fulfill your family's needs? Traci: My husband is a big help in this. Without him, I wouldn't be able to accomplish much. I try to be as organized and efficient as possible by using a day planner. I write down events, activities and projects. My husband and I delegate tasks to each other and with our kids when appropriate. When my kids go to bed, I usually take my bath. After my bath, I apply lotion or a moisturizer. I also use them on a daily basis. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to busy mothers? Traci: When you can delegate, do so. Don't feel guilty. No need to have the super woman syndrome. Busymom: Thanks Traci for your time! With her husband's help, Traci is able to balance her work and life needs. She uses a day planner to keep organized. For her relaxation needs, she uses lotions and moisturizers on a daily basis. You can find top quality lotions, moisturizers and day planners at http://www.allizon.com.
 Sherry, a mother of a one-year-old boy, takes care of her mother on a daily basis. "There is a sense of obligation when taking care of your parents. They took care of their children, and children must take care of their parents," Sherry, of Maine, said. Sherry teaches part time at her local community college. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Sherry: I am Sherry, married to my best friend. I have a beautiful boy. I am a college instructor. I have just started taking care of my mother who is in her 80s on a daily basis. Busymom: How do you keep track of your schedule? Sherry: Without my husband's help, I wouldn't be able to keep my schedule straight. He helps whenever, I request it. I keep track of my schedule by writing in a day planner. Busymom: You are a wife, a mother, an instructor, and a care giver. How do you find time for yourself to avoid being burnt-out or stressed? Sherry: My husband tries to give me at least one entire day to myself. So, I usually save that day for pampering myself. I use spa products at least once per week. I use moisturizers and lotions on a daily basis. I love candles as well! Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to other busy mothers? Sherry: It is ok to ask for help. Don't feel shy. Busymom: Thanks for interviewing with us! Sherry uses moisturizers and lotions and loves using candles. Sherry is a user of a day planner Visit Allizon.com to find the products YOU need to simplify your life. Go to http://www.allizon.com today!
 Eva, a mother of one-year-old boy, is a returning college student as well as being a stay at home mom. "I am returning back to school after taking two years off," Eva, of Illinois, said proudly. "Right now my biggest challenge is finding the proper day care for my son who will be away from me the first time," she said.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Eva: I am Eva, mother to a wonderful child. I had taken two years off of school to work and because my husband and I were expecting a child. With my husband's support, I am returning back to school to study radiology. I am kind of nervous.
Busymom: How do you find balance as a stay at home mom and a college student? Eva: Since I am more at home than my husband, I take care of most of the responsibilities. However, when he is home, he does help with whatever I need. Since I will be returning back to school after having a child. I am trying to be flexible yet have some kind of structure. My son is at the age where he likes to play with toys in the room I am in. He will be fine. I wait till he sleeps to get more things done. When my husband comes home, I give my self a bubble bath and then moisturize as a way to take care of myself. I also love candles. They help freshen the atmosphere. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to other busy moms? Eva: Don't be afraid to dream and go after it. Also, have a schedule or routine yet with flexibility. Busymom: Thanks Eva and good luck with your goals!
 Sally, an expectant mother of twin boys, is preparing for their arrival in three months making Sally and her husband new parents. Sally, of California, currently works as a business executive. "We are busy people, and I can imagine we will become busier. However, we are looking forward to our new additions," Sally said. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Sally: I am Sally, a mother-to-be. We are expecting twin boys. I have been preparing by reading, going to doctor appointments, talking with other mothers, and preparing the nursery. I work as a business executive. I have been doing that for seven years. Busymom: Executives are known to work more than 40 hours per week. Do you think that it is possible when your new additions arrive? Sally: Actually, I am taking three months maternity leave. Then I will be telecommuting with one or two days working in the office. I have managed to have a day care plan for the days I will be in the office. Busymom: How do you take care of yourself knowing that you will be a new mommy in a few months? Sally: I take vitamins recommended by my doctor. I also use lotions and moisturizers. I also never go around with a day planner. I also am stocking items in bulk, so that shopping won't have to happen a lot. I am also resting in between my tasks. My husband and best friend is helping a lot. Busymom: What kind of advice has been given to you by other moms? Sally: Don't feel that I have to do everything. Accept or ask for help. Do what you want to do when the babies rest. Busymom: Good luck, Sally! Please stop by, so that we can see how you well you have adapted to being a mother. Thank you for you time. Just like other moms, Sally uses lotions and moisturizers. Day planners seem popular with mothers as well. Excellent quality products can be found at Allizon.com. For other great products, stop by http://www.allizon.com.
 After a nasty divorce, Diane of Illinois, vowed to be a role model for her young daughter. She wanted her daughter to see her as a strong and independent woman. "It is important for daughters to see their mothers as strong women," Diane said. She currently works part time as a teacher's aide at an elementary school.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Diane: I am a newly divorced mother. I am slowly getting on my feet again. I now work as a teacher's aide at an elementary school. I also spend valuable time with my daughter who attends kindergarten. Busymom: You are now the head of your household. You have more tasks to do than ever. Do you find a balance, and if so how? Diane: I try to multi-task. I also use a day planner to write everything that must be done now or in the near future. I also write down appointments and other activities. Do I find a balance? That is a tough question to answer. Sometimes, I feel overwhelmed because of so many things to do. However, I have learned not to sweat the small stuff--which has made me feel a bit better. Although, my daughter is only in kindergarten, I include her in some of my tasks. Busymom: How do you take care of yourself? Diane: Well, I love candles. Not only do they have a beautiful scent, they are soothing and relaxing. Sometimes, I will use a shower gel as a treat. I definitely could not live without my day planner because my mind feels less cluttered. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to a busy mom? Diane: Spend lots of time with your own children because sometimes circumstances may not allow it. Busymom: Thank you for your time, Diane! Busy mom Diane relies on a day planner to help ease her life. She is a big user of candles, and she will occasionally use a shower gel. At Allizon.com, you can find some of the same products, such as the MomAgena,shower gels and scented candles. Busy Mom Agenda would make an ideal day planner for the busy mom. In need of a scented candle? Try the Sugar Mint Soy Candle found at Allizon.com. These items and many more can be found at http://www.allizon.com/.
 Erika, a mother of two boys and a girl, has her own business in graphic design, in Chicago. She works in her office a few days per week, and the rest of the time she is home when the children are home. "I purchased the business one year ago, so I am still trying to find a balance between work and home," Erika said. Busymom: Go ahead and introduce yourself. Erika: I am Erika, married to my best friend of 15 years. I am a mother to two boys and one girl. I am also a business owner in graphic design. Busymom: You have a lot to juggle. How do you do it? Erika: Well, as I had stated before, I am trying to find a balance between work and home. However, what I find helpful is writing things in a day planner. That frees my mind more. I am also trying to delegate chores to the entire family, so they can help out more. That is currently in the negotiating stages (smiles). Busymom: How do you take care of yourself? Erika: Since time is of the essence, I try to multi-task meaning when I take a shower, I will use a shower gel as an extra pampering. I will then add lotion once I am finished. While I clean the house, I light a candle with a beautiful scent. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give a busy mom? Erika: Your children and other tasks may take a lot of your time. Don't forget to spoil yourself even if it means just for a few seconds.
 Gretchen, a single mother to a seven year old girl, formed a support group for single parents in Indiana. She also works full time as an assistant store manager. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Gretchen: I am Gretchen, a single mom to a beautiful seven year old girl. I work full time as an assistant store manager. I also formed a support group for single parents about a few years ago, which I am still involved today. Busymom: You are a busy mother. Who takes care of your daughter when she comes home from school? Also, how often do you meet with your parents support group? Gretchen: After school, my daughter goes to a babysitter for about two hours. Then I pick her up where we began our daily afternoon and evening tasks such as homework, dinner, spending some quality time together, and other tasks. The parents support group meets about twice per week. Busymom: Since you are a single mom, how do you take care of yourself? Gretchen: Since I work full time, I am entitled to days off during the year. However, some of my friends do offer to have my daughter come over and play with their children about once per week which I have designated as "Me Time" even if I have a million things to do. I want to be strong for my daughter. I take bubble baths. I love candle scents, not only do they smell beautiful, but they also relaxes. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to moms everywhere? Gretchen: Don't be afraid to network and make friends because you do need support. Don't turn down offers of help--take it, so you don't get burnt out! Gretchen relaxes by taking bubble baths and also lights candles. Allizon.com offers a variety of bubble bath products and candles. Go to http://www.allizon.com for more information on some of the best products available for you!
 Lama, of Florida, is a stay at home mom with four children, ages 2-8. She also homeschools two of her children. Lama's husband works full time outside the home. When her husband is home, he divides the parenting duties and roles with Lama. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Lama: My name is Lama. I am a stay at home mom with four children. I homeschool my oldest two children. The youngest two children join their older siblings when it is time for homeschooling because they love to pretend they are big and go to school. Busymom: How do you manage to have time for yourself since the children are with you everyday? Lama: We have a routine or a schedule. I write down our schedule on a big poster board for the children and myself to read and follow. I have a personal day planner where I record appointments, deadlines and reminders. The children are expected to help update the family calendar as well with their own tasks and projects. Busymom: How long do is a homeschooling day? Lama: It ranges between six to seven hours per day. I give them a lot of hands-on learning, so it goes by quickly. Often once in awhile, we will go past six to seven hours. After that, the older children will keep the younger children occupied while have about five to 10 minutes of "Me Time." Then I will supervise as I cook and complete last minute tasks. When my husband comes home, he will usually play or read a story with the children, allowing me to have one or two hours by myself. Busymom: What do you do with the one or two hours? Lama: I will read a book in my bedroom and light a candle or two, or take a nice hot bath or shower using my favorite gels and moisturizers. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to other busy moms? Lama: It is hard for women to accept help from others because they may not do it the we like. That needs to change because by us doing many things, we are taking precious time from ourselves. Don't be afraid to delegate.
 Tiffany along with her husband, of Nebraska, has six children--four boys and two step-daughters. "We are a blended family, meaning two different families living and making a life together." Although her husband works full-time, Tiffany works part-time at their local bookstore, leaving the youngest two with a babysitter twice per week.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Tiffany: I am Tiffany, a mother to four boys and two girls. Their ages range between two years of age through 12 years of age. It is an interesting household! Each child has a unique personality and are interested in different things despite being raised together. Busymom: Do people ask you questions about being a large, blended family? Tiffany: Friends and family asked us many questions, such as how we handle parenting and other familial issues. Our children are treated the same by my husband and me. We don't differ in parenting or treatment. We stand united. Busymom: Besides raising and taking care of your children, you also work part time at a bookstore. How do you manage tasks at home and taking care of yourself? Tiffany: I use a day planner to record events, appointments and projects of everyone's because I need to know what everyone needs and has to determine if I could multi-task, etc. The older children help with chores and errands, even the youngest children have to pick up their own toys. The children know that I have a right to "Me Time" which is at least five minutes to myself. During that time, I may use a moisturizer or indulge in yummy chocolate, something to spoil myself for a few minutes. Busymom: Your time allows you to feel refreshed even after a few minutes. It is also nice to have older children help you in some ways. Do you have advice you would like to give to mothers? Tiffany: If you have older children, make sure you get some "Me Time." You will feel more relaxed when you return back to your children.
 Nelly, of Wisconsin, has three children, two girls and one boy. She currently works three days per week at a local bank. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Nelly: Happily married to my husband of six years, we have two girls, ages 3 months old and 18 months old, and one boy who is five. I work part-time at a local bank. My husband works at a local factory. I am currently on maternity leave, however I will be returning back to work in the next couple of weeks. Busymom: Wow. Your hands are certainly full! Do you even find time to take care of yourself? Nelly: Certain things I have to let go for now, until my daughters become a little older. My husband works full time. My mom and sisters do come and help when they get off of work and school. My son is in kindergarten. When the girls are sleeping, I sleep too. I try to find as many short cuts to household chores and errands when possible. I still hang on to my day planner. Busymom: Yes, day planners are life savers. Many people use day planners for all their activities. So, do you have any simple ways of taking time for yourself? Nelly: I make sure I eat healthy because I nurse and have more energy that way. I play classical music in the background when I want to calm my girls down. I do use an eye pillow when I am sleeping filled with relaxing scents. Sleep is my biggest "me" time--I take it whenever I can! Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to mothers, especially mothers with newborns? Nelly: Take any help you can get until things become a little easier for you. Don't worry if it is not "done your way." Also, sleep when the baby is sleeping! That helps me. Since Nelly has a new addition to their family, taking time for herself does not occur very frequently. However, she does use a day planner and an eye pillow, which can be found at http://www.allizon.com/. As Nelly had stated, if people offer to help out--take it.
 A mother to an only child, Jean of Iowa, works at a local community college as a technology instructor. "Many people think that because I have only one child I am not as busy as other mothers," says Jean. "When a parent becomes a parent, they are busy until their children become adults or even forever!" Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Jean: I am Jean, a mother to a lovely six year old girl. I teach part-time at my local community college, and the rest of my day I spend helping at my daughter's school as a volunteer. Busymom: How is it to raise an only child? Jean: I am able to give my child more attention and opportunities than I could have if I had more children. Although my daughter is an only child, I did put her in preschool when she was three years old because I wanted her to be used to other children her age. So I have always found social activities for her to do. Busymom: You seem active yourself. What are some things that you are involved with? Jean: Well, I am a part time college instructor teaching anywhere between two or three classes per semester, plus am on a couple committees. After I finish teaching, I head on to my daughter's school and help out in the library or classroom, wherever I am needed until school is out. I take my daughter home. We both prepare dinner for her daddy and us. That is a good experience for her. Busymom: So when do you have time for yourself? Jean (laughs): Well it depends when my husband gets home from working in his office. If he is home early, he is able to spend time or take over some of my responsibilities at home, allowing me to have some me time; otherwise, I wait till my daughter goes to bed. Busymom: How do you pamper or take care of yourself? Jean: I light candles when I am relaxed with a book or sitting in a bubble bath. When I do take a short nap, I use an eye mask or an eye pillow to put over my eyes. Not only does this relax my eyes, but it helps me sleep quicker. And of course, like many moms, I use moisturizers. Those are definitely life savers for the skin! Busymom: What advice would you like to give other moms? Jean: No matter how many children you have, parents are parents. So, it's best not to judge parents, until you have at least walked in their shoes.
 A mother of three, Dana and her family moved back to Michigan this summer. Dana was six months pregnant with her third child when they were moving. "It was tough because my eldest child--a boy, is four years old, and my second child--a girl, is two," Dana explained. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Dana: I am Dana. My family and I moved back from Ohio to Michigan, where I am originally from. I am a mother of three beautiful children, two boys and one girl. I am also a stay-at-home mom. Busymom: I am amazed that you had made the move in the summer while you were pregnant. You just had a baby this August. How did you do it? Dana (laughs): With careful planning. You plan everything that you can, yet be flexible when things don't always follow through. I know that certain things always must happen--for example paying bills on certain dates or doctor appointments. That is a must. I record those in my day planner. I also record other tasks like attending preschool or playgroups as well. Things that need my attention get recorded. Busymom: Your husband is a physician, so he is not home a lot with you to help take care of the children, therefore not leaving enough time for yourself. How do you take care of yourself? Dana: When my husband has a vacation day or a day off, he helps. In fact, he will tell me to take the day off to myself--do whatever I like. Since I can't stay in the showers or bath too long, I really don't pamper myself too much. One way I take care of myself is by lighting up a candle. I love scented candles because they are so relaxing and help calm the atmosphere. Every once in a while, I will use a spa-at-home kit. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to other moms? Dana: Often times, many people go through life without reflecting or contemplating. Before they know it, they realize that time has passed them by. Learn to slow down. Enjoy the scent of a candle or pamper yourself with a spa. No matter how busy our schedules may get, we should always try to take care of ourselves. Allizon.com has many items for moms like Dana. You can find day planners and agendas, candles and spa-at-home kits at http://www.allizon.com/.
 A fulltime, stay-at-home mom, Tina, of New Jersey, has her hands full with triplets--two boys and one girl. Her husband works 12 hour days, five or six days a week. That usually doesn't leave much time for Tina to pamper herself because she is constantly supervising her children. Once they're asleep, she tries to clean up the rooms, or she takes a nap herself. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Tina: I'm Tina, a mother of triplets. My triplets are all two right now, so I am having to deal with the "Terrible Twos" as well. My husband does help when he is not working. I plan structured activities and free play for my children. Busymom: Why do you plan structured activities? Tina: I have to plan structured activities because that is one way the triplets will learn about their environment and how to deal with each other. Otherwise, you will hear constant fighting a big part of the day! Busymom: When you have a chance how do you take care of yourself? Or what kinds of products do you use to help make your life easier? Tina: When I take a shower, I will use my favorite shower gels or body wash, and then apply lotion once I get dressed. Not only do I smell great, I feel relaxed. I also use a calendar to record activities, appointments and other important items. That helps because it keeps my mind clutter-free. Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to share with other moms? Tina: It's OK to have a "lived-in" house, meaning it doesn't look like it came out of a magazine. When your children sleep or take a nap, go for it if you want or need one. Although Tina may not have much time to pamper herself, she does while she showers or bathes. Shower gels, body wash and lotions help a person, especially a mom, feel good about themselves. Tina also uses an agenda to help organize her and her family's life. Agendas, shower gels and other items can be found at http://www.allizon.com/.
 Sarah, a college part-time student in Chicago, has her hands full with her two children, ages 2 and 1. Sarah puts her two children in day care because she attends college classes and her husband works. After class, Sarah picks up their children and then is kept busy with them until their bedtime. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Sarah: I am Sarah, a college student living in Chicago. I am studying to be radiologist. I also have two children and am happily married. It can be tough taking care of two toddlers! I want to say it is even tougher than studying for classes. *laughs* Busymom: From the sounds of it, you do have a busy life. Since they are so close in age, how do your children get along? Sarah: Well my daughter, who is one, has learned to defend herself against her older brother because sometimes he likes to tease her. They usually don't play with each other because that age is more learning about themselves in their environment. Busymom: Give us a typical day of your schedule. Sarah: Ok. My husband works second shift, so he is asleep when this all happens. It begins at 7:30 a.m., when my children wake up. I wake up around 7 a.m. After I have changed their clothes and washed them up, they are eating breakfast by 8:15 a.m. By 8:45 a.m., we are out the door and drop the kids off at daycare. I am in class by 10 a.m. until 4 p.m. I then swing by daycare pick up my children and head home. They play while I prepare dinner. After some more free play with them, I give them their baths, then read them a bedtime story and then put them in bed by 7:45 p.m. I then wash dishes, straighten the living room, and pull out my books to study and get caught up on homework. I usually end up going to bed around 12 a.m. Busymom: How do you avoid being stressed out? With that type of schedule, you definitely need to take care of yourself! Sarah: My time alone is when I am driving to class or a 15 minute resting period because I do some evening chores and my school work. My husband usually gives me a day to myself on the weekend. He'll spend an entire day with them on a Saturday or Sunday while I get caught up with what I want to do. In the mean time, I definitely rely on my day planner, so I know where everyone is at and what kind of projects are due. I am also a big fan of moisturizers. Not only do they make your skin feel soft, it's relaxation! Busymom: Any advice you would like to offer to busy moms? Sarah: Try to enjoy your moments with your children when they are keeping you busy because they will grow before you know it. Also, when family offer to watch your children just because--accept it!
 Faye, of Illinois, is a mother of six children and works full time. Although her husband does help with family and household tasks, Faye ends up completing or supervising most of those tasks. I have interviewed her to see how if she makes time for herself. Busymom: Please introduce yourself. Faye: I am Faye. I am the mother of six children, ages three to 12 years, and I work in a preschool. I come home and then work to make sure family and household tasks are met. Bless my husband, he does help when he can. Busymom: You mentioned that your husband does help when he can. What about your older children? Faye: Yes, they are starting to, even the three year old. They pick up after themselves. They also receive positive reinforcements if they do above and beyond their responsibilities. Since we are a large family, we work or try to work as a team. Sometimes, we have our moments. Busymom: Since you are extremely busy, how do you take care of yourself, so that you may continue to be healthy and happy? Faye: I have learned not to be a perfectionist and that each person has their own way of completing tasks. I also record all appointments, meetings, play dates, projects in one agenda that stays with me, so that I can keep track of all activities. When the children are in bed, I give myself a bubble bath with a good book I'm reading. After that, I use lotion as a massaging technique. Sometimes, my husband will take over the bed time routine, so that I could go to bed early. Busymom: Any other advice you would like to give to busy moms? Faye: Allow others to help in their own way--even if it annoys you. Learn to let go of some tasks and delegate. Don't feel guilty in spending time for yourself. If you are not happy, then your family will not be happy. Faye is one busy mom, yet she manages to take care of herself even if only minutes of time alone. She is an avid user of agendas. At http://www.allizon.com/, Busy Mom agendas and calendars are available for the busy mom. Faye mentions that she uses lotions to relax. At allizon.com, there are a variety of lotions for purchase, such as Malie Koke'e Body Creme, Jing Jang Creme, or Aromatherapy Moisturizers. Visit http://www.allizon.com/ for your personal or gift needs--you'll be glad you did.
Unfortunately, my guest for tonight canceled last minute due to allergies. She has agreed to be featured next week. I am in the process of putting my lists of guests and experts about mind, health, beauty, and even being a busy mom. Just a refresher course, Wednesday's Word With will feature a guest or expert in the areas of mind, health, beauty and busy mom. I will be asking her all sorts of questions related to her expertise. Specific products will be included in the featured post because we want to be sure to offer you some of the best opportunities for you to use and enjoy. If you are interested in being featured as a guest or expert, email me at writingtoimprove@gmail.com, be sure to put in the subject heading featured guest or expert; or leave a comment.
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