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I am a newly divorced mom of a wonderful 9 year old daughter. I am owner of the website allizon.com. I have such a stressful life and wanted to relieve that. My website is designed to help busy mom to take time to just breathe. I will become the guru of organizational and spa products that induce relaxation.
With the rising gas prices and the increased cost of living... vacations may be out of the question this year!
Why leave when you can enjoy a relaxing time in your own town and backyard! Kids really don't care as much about where they spend time with you, but thatthey get your undivided attention.
Ask your kids... "if you were to spend time with me, what would you like to do?" Make this a fun exploration.
Create a suggestion box that can sit on the kitchen counter for a few days. You will need:
1 Shoe Box
Wrapping Paper
Scissors
Tape
Writing Paper
Pen/Pencil
Yarn/Twine
Cut a hole in the lid of the shoe box that will allow for suggestions to be dropped in.
Wrap your box in any style of paper you might have in the home (any season of wrapping is fun). If you do not have wrapping paper on hand, take the under side of your grocers paper bags and have the kids decorate it before using it for your wrapping paper.
Take 5 sheets of paper and cute into quarter squares to be placed by the box for suggestions.
Use the end of the pen to punch a small hole into the upper corner of the box lid. Cut your yarn/twin into one 3 foot long string. Feed one end through the hole and make a large knot so that it will not slip back through. On the other end of the yarn/twin, secure your writing instrument.
Ask your kids to help create a poster board listing the ideas and pick the top three (you may start off the ideas on the poster with a few of your own at the start). You can use markers and crayons to decorate your poster board.
One Idea: Make this week an adventure. If you have a tent, set it up in the backyard and pretend you are on a Safari. Find a tape/CD with music and animal noises that you would find on a safari and bring a portable player outside.
At night around the makeshift campfire, talk about your adventures from the days safari exploration. What animals did you see? What do you hope to see tomorrow?
If you have a small TV that can be brought into the outdoors... a safari video may be the added touch. You can go to your local library and check-out National Geographic movies, books and tapes/DVD's that will give you a realistic idea of your safari.
You can make a fire pit that does note require a flame. Cut a square 1 1/2' X 1 1/2' out of the bottom of a 2'x2' box. Cut one side out of the box completely, leaving only three sides (this will assist in keeping your light cooler).
Purchases Red and Yellow Cellophane sheets long enough to cover your opening. Cut your sheets into 3 inch wide x 2 foot long strips.
Tape red and yellow sheets of cellophane across the opening alternating colors every 3 inches.
Place a flashlight at a safe distance under the cellophane to create the idea of a fire. CAUTION: Never leave this unattended and check often for heat levels. Use your own judgement as to the length of time your make shift fire should stay lit as this site and Blog writer is not and shall not be held responsible for any harm that may occur. USE AT YOUR OWN RISK!
Whatever you choose to do... the time spent together will not be forgotten.
I still remember that night my mom and dad slept outside with me in my playhouse. We had sandwiches, juice and cookies. Thinking about it today seems so simple, but the impact of knowing my parents cared that much has stuck with me through the years.
Take time for yourself... knowing that your not only recharging your energy and emotional well being, but renewing yourself to meet the ever demanding needs of your family.
We have been taught, that a good mother/father will always care for their children, putting their own personal needs and wants last. Most of the time this is true, but taking time for yourself will create a balanced feeling in your daily life!
The need to recharge and find time for YOU... is an overpower sign that your life is unbalanced and you must respond!
Take one evening as often as you need to recharge!!
Order in take-out for the family
Rent a move that will hold your families attention
Post a sign... "Mom's Time - Do Not Disturb until _____!"
*** or ***
Find a friend that will care for your children in exchange for you doing the same for her.
Once you have started the movie and set-out dinner and snacks or dropped off the kids at your friends... this will leave you with two hours
ALL TO YOUR SELF!
Finding a quiet corner, park or backyard spot to read a book or retreating to the bathroom for that long awaited soak may just be the ideal time for you!
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If a bath is your choice of leisure, the Ladies, our Dresdner-Herbal Bath Packet http://www.allizon.com/images/dresdner-herbal-bath-packet-th.jpg is excellent for an end-of-the-day, “Take me away!”. This Traditional European Bath Therapy includes Vitamin E, Allantoin, Panthenol and Essential Oils to protect and beautify the skin.
This bath treatment will leave you feeling smooth and silky. They are also a wonderful way to relax away the stresses when traveling.
No matter what you choose to do... find a moment for yourself! I promise you will have more energy and patience for the days ahead!
With Summer, comes warm days filled with vacation and backyard barbecues, children's activities and continued work demands.
Each moment of my day seems to be consumed with the challenge of balancing my own personal need for time and meeting the commitments of my family responsibilities. Keeping track of all the activities, shopping lists and tasks to be completed, becomes a full-time job in and of itself.
With each person coming and going, it sometimes feels like my front door is the starting line of the Indy 500. As the children grow, so do their level of activities and my need to stay on top of events.
This planner is irreplaceable in organizing each intricate event of my family's life. I never leave the house without my agenda in hand.
The Busy momAgenda has provided me sections for planning my family's full year of activities. Whether it be a vacation, scheduling my weekly calendar of events, noting doctors visits and medical records, keeping important addresses and dates, and websites to remember... I am prepared for everything!
Enjoy each day knowing you have everything under control.
I have come to realize it is not the amount of activity in our lives, but how prepared we are to handle each situation with effectiveness and ease!!
Born soft and sweet with gentle smiles and soft coos. They grow-up so fast with skinned knees and hands, racing to your lap for comfort. Secrets and ice-cream, games in the park and bedtime stories filled your day.
All at once they are off to school and have grown up without notice. She is now a young adult with a busy life filled with friends, school and dreams of being grown up.
Our daughters love their mom’s attention and what better way to spend quality time then having a SPA DAY at home together or with a few friends and their moms.
An easy list of inexpensive ingredients can fill your afternoon of paradise with memories that will not be forgotten.
From the grocery store purchase: Deep Disposable aluminum baking dishes, Epsom Salts and finger food such as fruit, vegetables, dip and nuts.
Begin your day (even if it is just the two of you by sending invitations). You can even make a hand created card and leave it on her pillow to be discovered.
Prepare warm (but not hot) water and add Epsom Salts (following the instructions on the package) to the water for a relaxing foot soak while you are rejuvenating the rest of your bodies.
You can find a wonderful Spa Treatment called, "Get Fresh Look Better Naked" through www.Allizon.com. This three part treatment provides you with a luxurious Mineral Body Scrub, Mineral Body Mask, and Rich Body Crème. Be sure and remember to treat your feet once they have soaked with the same body scrub, mineral body mask and rich body crème.
To create the ambiance of the day, soft music and soy candles such as the Kobo Soy, Lemongrass, Thyme Leaves, Sage candle from www.Allizon.com will create gentle scents and soothing sounds.
Note: Be sure and provide each participant with a rinsing bowl and wash cloth for each individual step.
Ending your spa treatment with the “Get Fresh Look Better Naked,” rich body crème can leave you with the most rewarding moment. While applying this wonderfully scented body crème to your daughter's hands and arms, remind her how special she is to you.
Since spring is here, now is a good time to do some Spring Cleaning with Allizon.com. Staff will be working on some exciting and new changes to help serve YOU better.
This blog will be on hiatus as staff focus on making the updates.
It never fails. You just cleaned the inside of your car when your children have made it messy again with their food, wrappers, and their belongings. They may have even tracked the seats with mud.
Although, you can't keep your car totally mess-free, especially when children are involved, you can reduce some of it.
Keep odd shaped plastic bags in the vehicle. This is would be used for garbage such as wrappers, chewed gum, sticky items, anything that you normally would throw in the trash can. Once the bag is full, throw it in the dumpster, or your main garbage area.
Keep an old tote or handbag, for a few "car" toys, meaning these toys are to be played with when traveling in the vehicle only. Remind your children, these toys are privileges. If it comes to the point that you have to put their toys in the bag, they may lose that privilege as a consequence.
Keep eating and drinking to a minimum in the vehicle.
If you know their shoes will track mud or dirt, place old towels ahead of time, so your children's shoes will be wiped on the towel instead of the car floor.
Hope these tips help as you and your family begin making traveling (or even going out for short trips and distances) plans.
With rising prices on gas and everything else, it may get a little expensive to take your children out to a variety of places.
Here is a list that I have come up that is free or cost very little. Feel free to add more places to your own list:
Weather permitting, take the children to the parks.
Arrange a play date with a friend or family member.
Check with museum listings to see when discounts or free days are available.
Sometimes, zoos offer free days as well.
Check with your place of worship for activities and events.
Utilize the media to find out what is going on locally or surrounding areas. Read the newspapers, watch television, or listen to the radio. Be sure to converse with people you know to find out about local activities and events.
The idea of dieting scares many people for a variety of reasons, but it shouldn't if you change you way of thinking about losing weight.
Here are some ideas to help you get started:
Look it losing weight as making lifestyle choices to better your health. You choose to walk every day. You choose to eat more fruits and vegetables.
Get fit with a group of friends or family members. If that is not possible, then join a health club that meets your needs, which will then improve the chances of meeting people to help encourage you.
Journal what you eat and the calories. When you are more aware of what you are eating and drinking because you see the results in a notebook or journal, then you are more likely to better decide if you really want to eat or drink.
Hang around with positive thinking people. That DOES make a difference and will likely help you stick with your life style choices.
It is best to consult your physician when it comes to your health and weight. Also, it is best to lose weight slowly and not quickly.
Often times, when you and your child are out and about, your child says something cute, and you say to yourself, "I will remember that forever." or "I will write that down when I get home." Chances are you may forget what your child has said by the time you are home. You may soon regret forgetting what was said.
Another scenario, you may see or read something unique special, and you think to yourself, "Oh that is good. I will remember that." Once again, when you are trying to remember what that unique moment was, you may have forgotten already.
Carry a journal or notebook with a pen, small enough to put in your pocket or purse. As soon as you hear or see an observation, you can record it as soon as possible. The journal will become a recording of your experiences and adventures.
This will be a treasure to share with your children.
Many people now use Email as a form of communication. Often, it's for personal or business. It is possible to get hundreds of Emails in your Inbox, which can be an overwhelming task and even a time waster to go through them.
Here are a few ideas to help you organize your time when checking your Email. Set a time limit and enforce it. Use a timer that will ring at the set time. This will force you to delete emails that are not worth reading or taking your time. Once you do that, then it is time to read the most urgent or with highest priority.
And if you are on groups, such as Yahoo groups, be sure to be on digest, so that it will not take much space in your Email.
Often times, we may over eat that we do begin to do it unconsciously. When we realize what we are doing, it may be hard for us to cut or reduce our eating habits to moderation portion. You may have noticed that you overeat chocolate, fried foods, or even drink too much diet soda. Once you realize that habit or habits, then now is the time do something about it. So, how should you go about improving your diet?
Some would recommend to go cold turkey. Although going cold turkey may work for some, others would say reduce bit by bit, which I also recommend. First and foremost, you should always consult your doctor to see if you need to follow a diet. They will be able to advise you best on this situation.
For example, you drink too much soda, and you would like to reduce the amount you drink. Each time you have a soda, drink one extra glass of water. So if you have two sodas during the day, be sure to drink two extra glasses of water. A few days later, try to cut your soda intake in half, and then replenish with water. Keep doing that. Eventually, you should drink more water and less soda.
The point is for you to eventually replace excessive food with water or skim milk--whatever you prefer, until you have moderate portions.
Not only will your body feel better, but also healthier!
I tackled the kitchen last week, and I am proud to say that the kitchen is STILL organized and clutter free. How? You ask. The secret is to clean up a bit every day and not save it for later during the week. Not only is it a little cleaning, it just takes seconds--which could be done during television commercials, for example.
This is what I did. I wrote a list of what needed to be done in the kitchen, which included reorganizing cabinets, washing dishes, cleaning the floor, and getting rid of unnecessary clutter. I started from the top down, meaning the cabinets working my way down to washing dishes, cleaning out the refrigerator, and then finally cleaning the floor.
I ended up getting rid of dishes I no longer used, donating them to a thrift store. I reorganized my recipe files. I recycled cardboard boxes that was taking up space in the refrigerator.
Not only does the kitchen look better, the air is fresher.
Remember the key is to clean bit by bit everyday, not letting anything stack up for later.
You may know this already, but sometimes it helps to get a reminder. If you don't know this already, then you have learned something new today!
Never go to the grocery stores hungry. You will buy unplanned or unnecessary items, known as impulse buying. It is best to have eaten your meal or snack first, that way you go on a full stomach, and be less tempted to do some impulse buying.
Tip 2:
A former car salesman informed me that when you are shopping for a vehicle, do the car shopping at the end of the month.
Hope these tips help or have been good reminders for you!
Preschool children are curious by nature. The world is a new place to them. They are excited to see and try new things. This includes talking to strangers, which can be an uncomfortable experience for parents because despite educating your preschooler, he or she may talk to strangers again.
One of the most important things to remember is that there are good strangers and bad strangers. Good strangers are what you can consider "community helpers," like police officers, firefighters, mail carriers, and even teachers. You can explain to your preschooler that those good strangers are available for help, if they ever need it. Bad strangers may be anyone you do not know or are not community helpers.
Explain to your preschooler that he or she must always ask you, dad, or caregiver if they can talk with a grownup they do not know.
Constantly remind your children about strangers to be sure it is enforced. Be creative when teaching them about stranger danger.
Spring has finally arrived...at least that is what the calendar says. Many parts of the US had a long winter and are ready for winter. Sure the weather may bring a cold or snowy day, but it will not last as long as the winter days. Regardless, stay Positive. Your positiveness will be contagious!
When the weather gets warmer, enjoy it by being outside when possible. We all need it.
Recycling should practically be part of your life. If it is not, then it should be. Teaching your children to recycle is important because not only will they be helping the environment, they will be helping themselves. They will learn not to waste products they are using. This will help them become more aware of their own actions.
You can almost recycle anything now days, from cans to newspapers to clothes to tires. You can even recycle workable items that you no long want or sell. Groups like Freecycle.org is a great example of this type of activity.
Recycle at home. Children mimic their parents. Be sure to recycle aluminum cans, newspapers, plastics and card boards. Encourage your children to recycle their products as appropriate. Encourage your schools to recycle and talk about recycling.
We all can make a difference. It just starts at home.
For the next four Tuesdays, I will be blogging about Spring Cleaning since Spring is around the corner. Here, I hope to give you tips and ideas to make YOUR spring cleaning easier and more efficient.
Today, I would suggest to write a list of the top three to five areas that need to be cleaned or organized. (I know there are many areas, but if you list more areas, it may become overwhelming.) Once you finish your three to five areas, then you can make another list to complete.
In your current list, prioritize what you is most important to you for cleaning, starting with 1 as the most important.
My top three are:
1. Kitchen 2. Bathroom 3. Living Room
I will then study each room and decide what I would like to improve about those areas. That should be your next step as well. I will also try to "guess-estimate" how long each room will take me. Be sure to "guess-estimate".
Start with one area of the room, and work in small chunks. Set a timer for so many minutes to work uninterrupted as long as there are no emergencies. Do not start in more than one room. That could become overwhelming. Be sure to finish one room at a time, and cross that room off once you have finished.
I will give you my thoughts on Thursday as I tackle the Kitchen.
There will be a period when your child will begin to be exposed to certain things you may not approve of or that may have happened already. I am not talking about the world, itself. I am talking about the Internet or television.
Your child may be a preschooler who knows how to navigate on the computer which exposes him or her to programs that may or may not be appropriate. Your child may use the TV remote control which exposes him to inappropriate viewing.
Use parental controls on the computer and television. You, as a parent, decide what kinds of websites and shows to block when your child is utilizing the technologies. You will need to create a certain password that your child cannot know or guess it. Be sure to pick a password that you can easily remember, write it down, and hide it in a safe place.
If your child does see something inappropriate on television or the computer, be sure to briefly talk about what he or she saw. Explain why it is inappropriate. It is up to you to decide how detailed you should be. Take your child's age and interest into consideration.
Emails communicate messages. There are people who get hundreds of messages per day. Often times, emails are for personal or professional purposes. Jokes, notes, documents are often sent via email. However, often times there are "Urgent" or "Scenario-type" messages.
But you are not sure if these are valid or hoaxes. What shall you do? Should you believe the email? Should you question it? If so, how?
One excellent way to question an "Urgent" or "Scenario-type" message is to use Snopes.com. This is a great website to verify email claims of almost any type of situations to decide if you should believe that particular email.
It is a good idea to always verify a story that is forwarded via email, before you send off the wrong information to someone who may believe it.
We, at Allizon.com, wanted to give you some encouragements by providing some quotes. These are quotes for you to think about and use with your heart and mind. Mothers are the basic foundation for families and societies. You are constantly busy taking care of everyone, that it is easy to forget about yourself, thoughts and opinions.
Enjoy these quotes. Ponder them. Discuss them. Even turn them into artwork and hang up in your home.
"Wherever you go, go with all your heart."-- Confucius
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." --Dr. Seuss
"Success is getting what you want; happiness is wanting what you get." --Author Unknown
Volunteer as a family. Make it age appropriate for your children. There are many benefits when you volunteer as a family. You spend time together, you help make differences, and you gain new experiences.
Be sure to make it age appropriate, meaning don't take children where you as a parent wouldn't feel comfortable. Maybe a more appropriate opportunity is giving gifts to less fortunate children closer to their age. You decide.
Before and after the experience, be sure to discuss with your children how they felt, what they have learned, and reactions to the experience.
Make volunteering a traditional event in your family.
One of the best things you can do with your children is have them make homemade gifts when gifts are necessary.
By having your children make homemade gifts, your children will put a lot of thought into the gift. He or she will want to come up with an idea, collect materials to make the gift, and spend time putting it together. This will show them that their time is special.
Materials for homemade gifts are usually not that expensive. These are materials that can be found throughout your home. For materials that you don't have, ask family or friends or purchase at a discounted store.
Some ideas for homemade gifts include: making cards for all occasions, putting items in a basket (see http://www.allizon.com to purchase baskets or items for baskets), making coupons, writing letters, painting pictures, and planting flowers.
Ideas are endless. As long at the gift comes from the heart, it is worth the effort of making and giving!
Gas prices are more higher than ever before. It could even get higher by summer time. With gas prices going up, some products and services may go up as well, costing you more money.
However, here are some ways you can save money:
Carpool to work and running errands. You and a friend can take turns driving to the location. Carpooling saves not only gas, but wear and tear on your vehicle. If public transportation is available, that might be another option.
Walk to short distance places. Here you will be multi-tasking because you can bond with a loved one, exercise, and complete your task.
Pay bills online. Here you will be saving on gas and stamps.
When you grocery shop, be sure to scan advertisements to find where the sales are and use coupons. Be careful, sometimes buying in bulk may or may not save money. Do your homework.
Time to work on last year's resolutions, meaning if you are a smoker, now is the time to reduce smoking or even better yet--quitting! When we work on ourselves, not only do we feel better, but we also may save money. How cool is that.
Don't eat out at restaurants as much. Cook meals together at home. Not only is it cheaper, but you will get to spend time with family.
Don't forget to talk with others on seeing how they are saving money. While you are saving money, don't forget to have fun once in a while. It is healthy!
This year Daylight Saving Time is Sunday, March 9, 2008, at 2 a.m., in the USA. Don't forget to change your clocks to one hour ahead. However, some regions do not change their times like Hawaii and Puerto Rico.
Not sure if you should move your clocks ahead or behind? Remember this saying, "Spring ahead" when you are changing your clocks in Spring. When changing clocks in the Fall, think "Fall behind."
As a rule of thumb, you should replace batteries smoke detectors and other important appliances.
It should take a few days to get adjusted to the new time. It is understandable if you feel a little bit out of routine.
Often times, you may not like it when telemarketers call your home. You may find it annoying for a variety of reasons, such as: they selling things you are not interested in or calling at odd hours. It is common to get phone calls by telemarketers on a daily basis.
Thanks to a government website, National Do Not Call Registry, you can register your phone number on a do not call list AND telemarketers must stop calling you. The National Do Not Call Registry is run by the Federal Trade Commission.
It may be up to a month before telemarketers stop or limit their calls to you. In the mean time, you can tell a telemarketer, "Take me off your list."
You have always wanted to donate money to many causes, but you do not have the money to donate as much or often as you want, or you may not afford to donate at all. However, you CAN donate.
No, I am not just talking about time. (However, you can donate your time if you like). I am talking about labels and caps. Yes, labels and caps.
Many schools and some organizations may collect labels and caps to help raise funds. Check with your local schools.
There are many different kinds of labels that may be collected by those institutions. Here is a list of some labels and caps that accept collections from schools:
Go ahead and search for other labels and caps programs as well. If you use these products and they are being accepted by your schools, be sure to follow the rules of how to collect them and donate as often as you can or want! This is way of donating generously without hurting your budget.
Women today have more responsibilities than ever before. We are expected to marry and raise a family; some women have to work outside there home as well. Many people, including your children and friends, come to you to solve or help solve their problems or fulfill requests.
The demands of modern life can take a toll on anyone--leading to stress physically or mentally.
Besides eating healthy, physically exercising, or talking with someone, there is another way you can relieve stress.
That is write a letter and then rip it up.
The purpose of the letter is to allow you to put your frustrations and stress on paper, so that you are able to "see" them in front of you. After you feel your letter is complete, rip it up. Do not allow anyone else to see your letter.
Rip it up into a lot of pieces, until you feel you have ripped it up enough. Be sure to toss it away.
Writing and throwing the letter away should help relieve some stress.
You may work full time outside the home, full time in the home, part time in both places, or any kind of combination. Many have expectations that women should be a "Super" woman. Anytime something needs to be done, society expects women to complete the task.
However, that should not be the case. Women are people too. We have needs, wants, dreams and the like just like everyone else.
So, I am going to tell you something you may already know. It may shock you, confuse you, or even scare you.
Ready?
Don't be afraid to say No when someone asks you to do an extra task when your schedule is already full or you don't feel like it. I know it sounds so simple, but it is tough for many women to do say it.
Practice saying, "No." It takes time. I mean some may be able to do it right away, others--it may take time.
Give a free gift to the next person--Smile. It is contagious. Not only will you feel good about doing an act of kindness, you will get to see how your smile actually influence the receiver, the person being smiled at.
Chances are that person will remember there are nice people, therefore causing him or her to have a more positive attitude--possibly influencing the next person he or she may see.
Smiling is free. There is no monetary value on smiling, but its meaning is priceless!
Socializing with people you enjoy is not only fun, but healthy for you. While everyone needs to physically exercise, everyone also needs to socially exercise. When you are taking care of yourself, you need to take care of yourself physically, spiritually, and mentally. Each part balances each other.
You also need a break from your daily routine to remain strong and energetic.
Socialize with your friends or family members. That is healthy for you mind. It reminds you that people do care about you. It reminds you that you care about them as well. You will get to share feelings and emotions.
Studies show people who socialize with good company tend to live longer, healthier and happier lives than those who don't socialize.
So, go ahead and call your friend that you haven't seen for months and set up a time and place just to meet for lunch.
Talk about what's on your mind. It helps. You may not want a problem-solver, but a listener. Sometimes, all you need is someone to be there, so they can listen while you vent. Be sure to explain to that person what his or her purpose is (meaning should they offer solutions or just listen).
Talk with a person you trust. It is important to trust the person. Often times, a family member or a friend would meet the need.
Being a mom is becoming busier than ever. Moms often time forget to take care of themselves. You cannot do that. You need to take care of yourself, not only physically, but spiritually and mentally as well.
Time is precious as is. You are trying to be efficient with your time, yet be there for yourself and family. Often completing family tasks are endless like washing dishes or clothes, or even grocery shopping. However, with careful planning of certain tasks, you can dedicate more time for other tasks like spending time with your family or yourself.
Although family meals are special moments that strengthen bonds, often time it can be stressful as you prepare a meal because you may not know what to cook until the last minute. Then you realize you are missing an ingredient or two.
Use a calendar to plan your family meals. This is an advantage because you can buy ingredients in advance. If this is your first time doing this, or it has never worked out for you in the past, plan only for one week at a time. When family menus become a habit, slowly increase planning to two weeks, then a week extra when you feel it is time.
Not sure what to plan when preparing family meals?
Get your family involved. Ask for input or ideas on what kinds of meals to cook, or you can even designate a day for a family member to choose meals for. How you get your family involved is up to you.
Teaching your children is usually an awesome experience that you will cherish and remember forever. However, at times, it can be frustrating or stressful, especially when you are trying to meet a school objective by a certain deadline.
I am going to offer tips on how to make it less stressful or frustrating for you.
Turn learning into a song. Often times children (and adults too) remember things when it is presented in poetry or rhythmic form. People enjoy music and often dance, clap or tap to the beat.
Make it a transitional activity. When your child is ready to move on to the next activity, have your child recite or repeat what he or she is supposed to learn. Once that is accomplished, then allow them to do the activity.
Repeat as often as necessary. Repetition is key. I know you may find it boring, but repeat, repeat, repeat throughout the day. You can choose to repeat every 15 minutes or have two hours--that is up to you.
Make an art or craft activity. If an art or craft lesson can be tied to the lesson, go for it. Just like music, people tend to remember when they are making something. Doing an art or craft, takes time.
Feel free to ask your child's teacher for help or tips as well.
Television programs offer a variety for a diverse audience. Ratings of television include from G to R. Certain programs are appropriate for children, with parental approval.
Once your children is watching their television shows, be sure to sit with them to discuss the episode. Allow them to ask questions about the viewed shows. Be sure to explain to them if the actions of the characters were appropriate for those actions. It is vital for children to know the difference between reality and pretend.
Not only will this be a learning moment, this could be a bonding moment between you and your children.
The Internet is a valuable resource to many people around the world. There are tons of information out there for everyone. However, not all information may be accurate or correct. It can be frustrating or time consuming to figure out credible sites and resources. And busy moms do not need to waste time in trying to figure out that.
So, how do you know what information to believe out there?
Here are some guidelines to help you figure if the website is credible or not.
1. The organization of that source is well known. For example, the American Cancer Society or the Red Cross. Then the source is reliable.
2. An author is listed on the website. You can easily check his or her credentials. People tend to believe articles written that have the author's name listed.
3. Many news channels found on television have websites. Use what is most common in your area first. If you are interested in reading other perspectives, and you are not familiar with those media sources, always find at least three sources from the same area to compare and contrast.
Don't be afraid to come up with your own guidelines as you find out if these are credible sources.
Sometime a child laughing is all that we need to enjoy and appreciate our lives. A child laughing reminds us of how beautiful and fun life can be. Take the time to listen to a child's laughter to truly understand one of life's many meanings.
The Internet is a valuable tool for any household looking to save money. This could be helpful for those who are on a tight or small budget. Although there are many ways you can save money by using the Internet, I will give you five ways to help you to get started.
Pay bills online. Not only could you avoid late fees and penalties, but you also save on gas money and the rising costs of stamps. It also takes seconds to pay online. You save time!
Utilize auction and store sites such as Ebay or Etsy. Often times, bidding always you purchase an item at a cheaper rate, however it could become more expensive than its worth. Do you homework to decide what are the best deals.
Using websites to print coupons. Sites like Coupons.com or Smartsource.com allows a visitor to print coupons that can be redeemed at stores. This saves you from buying the Sunday paper that carries those coupons. Another advantage is you can pick and choose which coupons you want.
A good website to bookmark is Froogle.com because you can compare prices of products that you are searching. I am sure there is other websites that do this, but Froogle specifically comes to mind.
With toys becoming easily available for many families, it is easy for your child to get carried away by wanting every toy they see. Often times, it is also easier for children to become more demanding and spoiled. This allows children to become more materialistic, putting pressure on you.
All this may not be necessary. In many families, children now donate gently used toys to less fortunate children who are at homeless shelters, preschools, or other institutions. When children receive new toys, that is when they donate their toys. Why not have that be the same for your children?
Every time your child receives a new toy, have your child donate the same amount of toys he just received. For example, if your child received two toys, then he would donate two gently used toys. Donated toys have to be gently used. Do not allow broken or missing toys to be donated. This will not be a good lesson for children to learn.
Be sure to discuss the process of donating toys with your children, so that they may understand the process. If possible, let your children give the toys to the appropriate parties.
Your children are never too young to donate their toys. The lessons will last a life time.
Life is filled with activities, tasks, projects and deadlines to the point where we have no time to exercise. However, lack of exercise is detrimintal to your mental and physical health. It is vital to exercise on a daily basis. How can I exercise when I have little time, you ask? It is possible. It may not be a full 30 minutes, but five minutes here or there is better than no minutes.
Here are some ways you can include exercise in your busy life without really making a lot of time:
When you are shopping, park a little further away from the building. Don't park in the closest parking spot.
Take the stairs instead of the esclator or elevator.
When you are cleaning your house, listen to some upbeat music. Chances are you will be dancing while cleaning.
When you spend some quality time with your children, play a sport together where both of you have to physically move.
Planning on spending time with a friend? Plan your time together by walking as you both catch up on each other's lives.
Be creative when including exercise in your daily life. Remember five minuters here and there is better than no minutes at all. Once life slows down a bit, then you can add more minutes to exercising!
You don't need clutter because it distracts you from other more important tasks and issues. When you reduce clutter, you become more relaxed and at harmony with your home which lead more likely to happiness.
One way to reduce clutter is stopping or reducing catalogs that come in the mail. You can go to http://www.catalogchoice.org/. This is a free service! There you can pick and choose which catalogs you don't want to be mailed out any longer. Not only is less clutter great for the mind, it is also great for the environment. Less papers mean less natural resources being used.
Allizon.com is always looking for life style choices, changes and methods that will benefit our busy moms!
Katie, of Michigan, works full time at a local bank. She is a mother to three children, one boy and two girls. Her husband just became unemployed. "He helps by taking care of our children while I go to work," Katie said. "It is a change, but we are trying to make the best of it."
Busymom: Please introduce yourself.
Katie: I am a mother to two girls and one boy, all under age six years old. I work full time at a local bank for the last five years. My husband just became unemployed. It is a big change for us, but we are managing it.
Busymom: How are you managing as a family with one income?
Katie: Well, the children do not have to be with a babysitter--they are now with their dad while I am at work. He takes over some of my duties that I was doing while in between looking for a job. We have saved for a "Rainy Day"--which is helping us.
This is a tribute to all you busy moms out there. Without mothers, families can't function well. Mothers are the backbones of families and societies.
Here you will listen to what a mother's day is like to the tune of William Tell Overture.
After listening to this song, don't forget to call YOUR mom and thank her for all that she has done or is doing. You can also visit http://www.allizon.com for some great gifts on thanking your mom as well.
Starting Tuesday, February 12, our readers will be able to find the latest information and trends on methods of organizations and trends. We will also post articles, tips and posts. We will also include interviews as well.
We want our busy parents to take advantage of this blog. Whatever your organizing and relaxing needs are, this blog will help you reach your needs. Our website at Allizon.com states "Simplicity for Busy Mothers". That is what we will do--bring simplicity, so that you can organize and relax!
A gentle wash of the tropics, the Island Bath Plumeria Shower Gel 2 oz is made up of gentle Coconut, soothing Aloe Vera gel, and Macadamia nut oil. This shower gel softens and moisturizes the skin. Visit http://www.allizon.com/ today for more information. You will be glad you did.
Thursday's Treasures is the Malie Plumeria Lather. Using this product will change your bathing experiences for the better! This would make a great gift for you or a loved one.
Cindy, of Wisconsin, owns her own accounting and tax service. "The next few months will be a busy season as I prepare taxes," Cindy said. "Usually, my husband and children will fend for themselves because I won't be getting home until the evening time." Despite the long hours she will put in, Cindy loves owning her own accounting and tax service.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself.
Cindy: I am Cindy, a mother to two girls and one boy. I own a small accounting and tax service. This will be my third year as owner. Parts of the year, I work on accounting and payroll services, and the other part is dedicated to tax season.
Busymom: Since you put in long hours during tax season, how do you find time to take care of yourself?
Cindy: I mentally prepare myself ahead of time knowing that I will put in long hours, and my husband will take care over some of my parenting duties. It is also a blessing that my children are old enough to take care of themselves. When I shower, I like to use shower gels. I always use moisturizers and lotions.
Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to busy moms?
Cindy: It is important to delegate. Don't feel guilty if you take a five minute break for a cup coffee.
Busymom: Thanks for your time to be with me today!
Not only is a purse useful and beneficial, it adds sophistication to an outfit or often completing the outfit. Whatever your reason is for using a purse, you can find beautiful handbags and purses at Allizon.com.
A purse that is uniqe is the One of a Kind Floral Purse which is very chic and sophisticated. This durable,upholstery type material is light brown with light brown flowers. The Taupe eyelash trim on the top make it a purse that must be flaunted. The 100% cotton lining is brown with small polka dots. The natural bamboo handles give it a down to earth feeling.One of a Kind purses are a great way to express you.
Question: I am looking for Aromatherapy candles that I can use when I need to relax. Does Allizon.com carry such a product?
Answer: Allizon.com offers all sorts of candle products, including Aromatherapy candles. The Pure Soy Candle Stress Relief is a good choice to consider. Not only with the Pure Soy Candle help relax and relieve stress for you, these candles are made of hight quality, organic soy wax and 100% cotton wicks. Go to http://www. allizon.com to purchase yours today!
Friday Favorites is a moisturizing product available at Allizon.com. During the winter, your skin can get become dry. It is important to pick a moisturizing product that your skin can tolerate.
Pure Shea Butter Coco Vanilla is a wonderful combination of fresh Island Coconut and French Vanilla. It is very moisturizing to the skin and all of Allizon.com's shea products smell divine. Purchase yours today at http://www.allizon.com/.
Moisturizing is a daily part of many mother' routines. When you apply moisturizers, you want it to feel smooth and not greasy or sticky. At Allizon.com, you can find many products that will fulfill your moisturizing needs.
Jen, of Vermont, is a mother to three high school students. "Although, they are in high school, I have found that they need me more than ever," said Jen. She also helps her husband with his business. After 20 years, Jen is going back to school getting her degree in business.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself.
Jen: I am Jen, a mother to three high school students--two boys and one girl. Many told me that once the children get older, they will not need their parents as much. I don't find that to be true. I see once they get older, they need their parents around for advice and guidance. I also help my husband run his business, and I have been taking classes at our local university after 20 years of not being in school.
Busymom: How do you take care of yourself, so that you are able to fulfill these roles?
Jen: For starters, I keep things to do, appointments, events and etc. in a day planner because that helps me manage my time. My children also have certain chores they are responsible for doing and completing. Since they are teenagers, I am able to take showers, or go into my room to read a book. I also use moisturizers and lotions massage my skin.
Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to busy mothers?
Jen: Don't be afraid to ask for some time to yourself. You need it, so that you can filled with energy when doing your job or jobs. A happy mom makes a happy home. Your family's mood is affected by you--the mother.
Busymom: Thanks Jen for letting me interview you. Good luck with your school studies!
A returning student, Jen makes sure she has time for herself. She uses a day planner to manage her time and schedule. She also makes sure she moisturizes because it is great for her skin and makes her relaxed. Great products can be found at Allizon.com. Go to http://www.allizon.com/ to get more purchasing information on awesome products.
Bring the tropical aromas to your home during the winter months by using Malie Linen Mist available at Allizon.com. The Mist can be used on linens, furniture and clothes. Although it is cold or snowing outside, it sure will feel like your on the tropical islands.
Question: I am looking for a moisturizer that doesn't leave my skin greasy. Does Allizon.com offer a product like this?
Answer: Allizon.com carries many unique products that leave not only you, but your skin feeling and looking great. One product that would be great to use is the Get Fresh Bath Trio, a mix of antioxidants and multi-vitamins packed into super-moisturizing Shea butter, plus olive oil, Brazil and Macadamia Nut oils. The Trios nourish and absorb into the skin without a greasy feeling. This makes a great gift for you or a loved one. Go to http://www.allizon.com/ to purchase one today!
Like many mothers, you have special types of clothing for your career or personal use. When you do wear these clothes, you take great care to to keep your clothes neat and mess-free because if they are not, chances are these special types of clothes have special instructions which may get costly. To help save money and time, you can find the Laundress Delicate Wash at Allizon.com.
The Laundress Delicate Wash cleans effectively, yet remains gentle on specialty fabrics. This product is perfect for both hand and machine washing. The detergent can be used on speciality fabrics like: silk, silk blends,cotton, linen, polyester, nylon, Lycra, spandex and more despite water temperatures as well.
Made with renewable resources and organic ingredients, The Laundress Delicate Wash is dermatologist and lingerie designer recommended. Made in the USA, the Laundress Delicate Wash is a highly concentrated product.You will get up to 32 washes per bottle.
A great gift or sampler set, the boxed set includes 2 oz. tubes of Get Fresh Rich Body Creme in all four signature scents: Lemongrass, Black Currant, Grapefruit and Starfruit. Made in the USA, the rich creme formula delivers an extended dose of 24-hour moisture and protection to combat dry aging skin with natural oils, tropical nut butters and antioxidant botanical extracts.
Free of parabens and synthetic dyes, it's great for all skin types and makes a luxurious everyday all-over moisturizer. Never greasy or sticky, using the Creme leaves your skin feeling smooth and supple.
Tonya, of New Mexico, is a work at home mother to a boy and a girl. She is a freelance writer. "I love being a work at home mom because as a freelance writer, I have more control of my hours--which is a good thing for my children," Tonya said. She is the mother to a three-year-old girl and one-year-old boy.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself.
Tonya: I am Tonya. I used to work as a writer in a company before becoming a freelance writer to stay at home with my children.
Busymom: How do you separate your work from your family, so that you can have time for yourself as well?
Tonya: I try to stick to a schedule, however with flexibility. I tend to work in the same room where my children are playing. I work part-time, so that I can fulfill the needs of my family. Once the children are in school, I will be working full-time. After three or fours of work, I quit and focus time on my family. Any work questions or issues wait until the next day. I also use a day planner religiously.
Busymom: Do you have time for yourself? If so, how?
Busymom: Do you have any advice you would like to give to busy moms?
Tonya: Don't be afraid to be flexible. That could be to your advantage.
Being flexible is a must for Tonya because this allows her to find a balance between work, family and for herself. She also tries to take time for herself on a daily basis by using moisturizers, lotions, and candles. Awesome items can be found at http://www.allizon.com/ .
Winter is a perfect time to use lotions on your skin because it can be harsh towards your skin. At Allizon.com, you can find a variety of excellent moisturizers and lotions.
Refreshingly a light floral scent, Island Bath Plumeria Vanilla Body Lotion includes Macadamia Nut Oil and Aloe Vera Gel. These ingredients are used to soothe and heal the skin. Visit http://www.allizon.com/ for more information or to purchase yours today!
Question: I am looking for some unique type candles, preferably environment friendly. Does Allizon.com offer that type of product?
Answer: The Malie Koke'e Natural Soy Candles are elegant candles that transform the ambience of any room with the serene air of the tropics. Made from clean-burning waxes, Malie Kauai’s petroleum-free soy candles burn from a 100% cotton wick. Found at Allizon.com, Malie Koke'e Natural Soy Candles nourish and calm the spirit with the pure, exotic aromas of Hawaii. Koke'e is recognized as a national treasure and contains more species of endangered species than anywhere in the US. Malie is passionately committed to protecting these species and donates 1% of sales to the Koke'e Resource Conservation Society. Go to http:www.allizon.com to purchase yours today.
Cold, wintry Friday nights are a good time to catch up on resting and relaxing from your long, busy week. Today, you need a tropical island, no less will do. Found at Allizon.com, RX Bath Cube Less Stress is the product that you need to relax and restore your energy.
The sounds and annoyances of everyday life will fade as you slip into a bath filled with essential oil of Rose Wood, Patchouli and Ylang Ylang. RX Bath Cube Less Stress allows you to feel as if you were vacationing on a tropical island.
The Island Bath Exfoliating Bar is Thursday's Treasures. The bars can be found at Allizon.com. The winter months can be harsh for the skin, causing it to be dry or hardened. You can even get a "winter-burn". Island Bath Exfoliating Bars gently wash away impurities of the skin. The mildly exfoliating properties of oatmeal and the nourishment of skin-softening seaweed will make your skin as healthy and soft again.
Traci, of Colorado, is a mother to two girls, 3 and 5, and one boy 7. She works at a private school full-time. "There are days when it is too hectic in our house, yet there are days when everything and everyone is running smoothly," Traci said with a smile.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself.
Traci: I am Traci, a mother to three wonderful children. My husband and I try to work opposite hours, so that one of us is always home with our children. When it doesn't work, then we get a babysitter involved.
Busymom: How do you balance time for yourself since you work full-time and manage and fulfill your family's needs?
Traci: My husband is a big help in this. Without him, I wouldn't be able to accomplish much. I try to be as organized and efficient as possible by using a day planner. I write down events, activities and projects. My husband and I delegate tasks to each other and with our kids when appropriate. When my kids go to bed, I usually take my bath. After my bath, I apply lotion or a moisturizer. I also use them on a daily basis.
Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to busy mothers?
Traci: When you can delegate, do so. Don't feel guilty. No need to have the super woman syndrome.
Busymom: Thanks Traci for your time!
With her husband's help, Traci is able to balance her work and life needs. She uses a day planner to keep organized. For her relaxation needs, she uses lotions and moisturizers on a daily basis. You can find top quality lotions, moisturizers and day planners at http://www.allizon.com.
Cleansing impurities from the skin shouldn't only be done during Spring and Summer seasons, but also Fall and Winter seasons as well. Often times, your skin has to deal with dry or moisture air. Island Bath and Body Foaming Mineral Salts is a perfect solution in dealing with impurities of the skin and can be found at Allizon.com.
A soothing mix of natural sea salts and Epsom Salts combine to draw impurities from the skin, Island Bath and Body Foaming Mineral salts allow the body to cleanse and rejuvenate itself, leaving you with a delightful floral scent. Scents are Plumeria Vanilla and Pikake Jasmine.
Question: I am looking for a product that will soothe my tired feet. Can Allizon.com recommend a product?
Answer: At Allizon.com, there are different products that will ease or simplify your busy life. The Herbal Spa Socks is a perfect solution for your tired feet. It is designed to soothe your feet, hot or cold. Moist heat and a healing blend of lavender and whole grains penetrate sore muscles and alleviate pain naturally. Herbal Spa Socks may be put in the microwave or freezer. Buy yours today at http://www.allizon.com. You will be glad you did!
Fridays are the beginning of going away for the weekend, so that calls for packing some items. A great item to take on vacations is the Island Travel Candle which can easily fit in a luggage or handbag. This can be found at Allizon.com.
Bring the radiance of the islands with you - these candles are meant to travel, whether to alluring ports of call or your own private sanctuary. It is romantically packaged in a chiffon bag. Go to http://www.allizon.com to get yours today!
Thursday's treasures is the Malie Linen Wash found at Allizon.com. Washing linens are an important part of household tasks. Often time, clean linens are a must for your health and sleep.
Unlike other detergents, Malie Linen Wash washes with built-in soy fabric softener. Using Malie Linen Wash will leave your linens with the exotic aroma of paradise. You can purchase yours at Allizon.com.
Sherry, a mother of a one-year-old boy, takes care of her mother on a daily basis. "There is a sense of obligation when taking care of your parents. They took care of their children, and children must take care of their parents," Sherry, of Maine, said. Sherry teaches part time at her local community college.
Busymom: Please introduce yourself.
Sherry: I am Sherry, married to my best friend. I have a beautiful boy. I am a college instructor. I have just started taking care of my mother who is in her 80s on a daily basis.
Busymom: How do you keep track of your schedule?
Sherry: Without my husband's help, I wouldn't be able to keep my schedule straight. He helps whenever, I request it. I keep track of my schedule by writing in a day planner.
Busymom: You are a wife, a mother, an instructor, and a care giver. How do you find time for yourself to avoid being burnt-out or stressed?
Sherry: My husband tries to give me at least one entire day to myself. So, I usually save that day for pampering myself. I use spa products at least once per week. I use moisturizers and lotions on a daily basis. I love candles as well!
Busymom: What kind of advice would you like to give to other busy mothers?
A must have accessory to go with all outfits, including casual and dressy, is the Mona Lisa Hand Sculpted Plumeria Pin, available at Allizon.com. These pins are super light weight. A Mona Lisa speciality, flowers on the pins are made of bronze metal and hand enameled.
This great accessory may be the only thing you need to add glamour to your hair, jacket, or favorite piece of clothing. Go to http://www.allizon.com to purchase yours today!
Question: I am looking for a moisturizer that is made of organic ingredients. Does Allizon.com carry a that type of product?
Answer: Many products found at Allizon.com are of natural or organic ingredients. An excellent product to get is Jing Jang Crème. It is every beauty maven's miracle must-have. It's all-organic skin transforming properties will heal even the driest skin, relieve post-bikini waxing redness and add a luminescence to tired skin. Jing Jang Creme's organic ingredients include Calendula flowers, essential oils and beeswax. Jing Jang Creme, featured in People Magazine and on the Today Show can be found at http://www.allizon.com/.
